Tips for making first contact with youth

Making First Contact in Detached Youth Work:

Detached youth work relies on building trust and rapport with young people on their terms, in their spaces. Here are some tips for a successful first contact:

Be Approachable:

• Body Language: Maintain open, non-threatening body language. Avoid crossing arms or looking stern.
• Clothing: Dress similarly to the young people you’ll encounter, but professionally.
• Introduce Yourself: Briefly explain who you are, your role, and the organisation you represent.

Start with Observation:

• Blend In: Spend some time observing the group dynamic before approaching.
• Look for Openings: Wait for a lull in conversation or activity before initiating contact.

Initiate Contact Gently:

• Start with a Greeting: A simple “hello” or “how’s it going?” can be a good opener.
• Find Common Ground: Look for shared interests or current events to spark conversation.
• Be Patient: Building trust takes time. Don’t get discouraged if the youth aren’t immediately receptive.

Focus on Building Rapport:

• Active Listening: Show genuine interest in what they have to say.
• Open-Ended Questions: Ask questions that encourage conversation beyond a simple yes or no answer.
• Be Non-judgmental: Accept young people as they are, without judgment or criticism.

Respect Boundaries:

• Don’t Force Conversation: If the youth seem disinterested, politely excuse yourself and try again another time.
• Be Aware of Personal Space: Maintain a comfortable distance that respects their boundaries.

Additional Tips:

• Offer Resources (optional): Carry brochures or information about relevant services, but don’t push them.
• Be Familiar with Local Issues: Knowing local concerns can help build trust and show you care about their community.
• Maintain Confidentiality: Assure them that conversations will be confidential unless there’s a safety concern.
• Safety First: Always be aware of your surroundings and have a safety plan in place.

Remember, the goal is to build trust and establish a connection. By being approachable, respectful, and genuinely interested, you’ll take the first steps towards a positive relationship with the young people you encounter.