The way of love for detached youth workers

1 Corinthians 13 v 4-7

Detached youth work, aligns uniquely with the teachings of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. Let’s explore how these verses resonate with the principles of detached youth work.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 states:

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

Reflecting Love Through Detached Youth Work

1. Patience and Kindness

Detached youth workers exhibit patience and kindness as they build relationships with young people. This approach allows them to meet young individuals where they are, physically and emotionally, respecting their pace and space.

2. Not Envious, Boastful, or Proud

Youth workers serve from a place of humility, not seeking to impose their beliefs but to understand and support the youth on their terms. This approach is crucial in developing a trust-based relationship where the youth feel valued rather than judged.

3. Honours Others

In detached youth work, respecting each individual’s unique experiences and perspectives is fundamental. This respect fosters an inclusive environment where young people feel safe to share and engage.

4. Not Self-Seeking or Easily Angered

Placing the needs and well-being of young people first is a key aspect of effective detached youth work. Workers remain calm and composed, providing stability and support in the often turbulent lives of the youth.

5. No Record of Wrongs

A non-judgmental approach is paramount. Detached youth work involves continuous engagement without holding past actions against individuals, which is pivotal in helping them feel unconditional support.

6. Rejoices with the Truth

Encouraging honesty and integrity, detached youth workers celebrate these values. They help young people recognise their worth and potential, guiding them towards truthful and authentic expressions of self.

7. Protects, Trusts, Hopes, and Perseveres

Detached youth work is about creating a protective buffer around the youth. Workers trust in the potential of each individual, maintain hope for their future, and persevere, even when progress seems slow. This relentless commitment mirrors the love described in these biblical verses.

By grounding their efforts in the virtues described in 1 Corinthians, detached youth workers can profoundly impact the lives of young people, facilitating not just social but also spiritual growth in diverse community settings.