“Foolish One” is a song written by Taylor Swift when she was just 14 years old. Although it wasn’t included on her debut album, it was eventually released in 2021 as part of “Taylor’s Version” of Fearless. It comes on a re-recorded album “Speak Now (Taylor’s Version)”. It’s a “vault track,” meaning it was written during the “Speak Now” era but wasn’t included on the original album.
The song explores the painful realisation of unrequited love and the struggle to acknowledge red flags in a relationship. Here’s a breakdown of the meaning:
- Unrequited Feelings: The lyrics depict a narrator who is deeply infatuated with someone who doesn’t reciprocate her feelings. She hopes for a deeper connection, but he remains emotionally unavailable, leaving her feeling foolish for having those hopes.
- Ignoring Red Flags: The narrator recognises the warning signs (“red flags”) in the relationship but chooses to ignore them, hoping things will change. This internal conflict between her intuition and her desire for love is a central theme.
- Self-Doubt and Hope: The lyrics oscillate between self-doubt and a glimmer of hope. The narrator questions her own worth and wonders if she’s “the foolish one” for believing in the possibility of a future together. Despite the hurt, she clings to a sliver of hope that he might eventually come around.
- Learning and Moving On: Ultimately, the song suggests a process of learning and growth. Though heartbroken, the narrator seems to be coming to terms with the reality of the situation and the need to move on.
While Taylor Swift hasn’t explicitly confirmed who the song is about, many fans speculate it’s connected to her relationship with John Mayer, which is believed to be the inspiration for several other songs on “Speak Now.” However, the song’s themes of unrequited love, self-doubt, and ignoring red flags are relatable to anyone who has experienced the complexities of romantic relationships.
Lyrics
My cards are on the table, yours are in your hand
Chances are, tonight, you’ve already got plans
And chances are I will talk myself to sleep again
You give me just enough attention to keep my hopes too high
Wishful thoughts forget to mention when something’s really not right
And I will block out these voices of reason in my head
And the voices say, “You are not the exception
You will never learn your lesson”
Foolish one
Stop checkin’ your mailbox for confessions of love
That ain’t never gonna come
You will take the long way, you will take the long way down
You know how to keep me waitin’
I know how to act like I’m fine
Don’t know what to call this situation
But I know I can’t call you mine
And it’s delicate, but I will do my best to seem bulletproof
‘Cause when my head is on your shoulder
It starts thinkin’ you’ll come around
And maybe, someday, when we’re older
This is something we’ll laugh about
Over coffee every mornin’ while you’re watching the news
But then the voices say, “You are not the exception
You will never learn your lesson”
Foolish one
Stop checkin’ your mailbox for confessions of love
That ain’t never gonna come
You will take the long way, you will take the long way down
Foolish one
Stop checkin’ your mailbox for confessions of love
That ain’t never gonna come
You will learn the hard way instead of just walkin’ out
Now I’m slidin’ down the wall with my head in my hands
Sayin’, “How could I not see the signs?”
Oh, you haven’t written me or called
But goodbye screamin’ in the silence
And the voices in my head are tellin’ me why
‘Cause you got her on your arm and me in the wings
I’ll get your longing glances, but she’ll get your ring
And you will say you had the best of intentions
And maybe I will finally learn my lesson
Foolish one
Stop checkin’ your mailbox for confessions of love
That ain’t never gonna come
You will take the long way, you will take the long way down
Foolish one
Stop checkin’ your mailbox for confessions of love
That ain’t never gonna come
You will learn the hard way instead of just walkin’ out, oh-oh, oh, oh
La-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la, oh
La-la-la-la-la
Ain’t never gonna come
Ooh, you will learn the hard way now
Foolish one
Sittin’ ’round waiting for confessions of love
They ain’t never gonna come
And thinkin’ he’s the one, you should’ve been walkin’ out
Foolish one
The day is gonna come for your confessions of love
When all is said and done, he just wasn’t the one
No, he just wasn’t the one
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